One discouraging note on this topic. Over the past 120 days I have looked at a number of 53MYs (and also a 60MY) and noted that a couple went under agreement while I was looking. In each case the broker telephoned me later and advised that the sellers were having trouble obtaining financing or got cold feet when they realized the total cost committment. The brokers asked me to may any offer as the sellers are tired of the process.
I think if you are buying a boat, it is only ethical that you speak with your marine lender ahead of time to ensure that you are qualified to purchase the boat you are looking at. Additionally, I am surprised at how many buyers really don't undertand the ongoing expense of taking care of a fine yacht such as a Hatteras: dockage or a secure mooring, a secure winter storage facility (inside would be best), insurance, and a good mechanic / systems man to work with you (preferably at your side) to keep the systems and vessel in yacht condtion. Also, the required reserves that need to be set aside for periodic upgrades on systems and finishes.
I have done this in the past when operating and later selling large vessels. In the long run it best for the owner to sit down with a perspective purchaser and go through a budget of what is involved in operating the boat; what you can do by yoursef and what requires outside help. If you do this, your boat will ultimately find a good home and you will have a good realtionsip with the new owner. Also, I think the transaction is likely to go far more smoothly and have higher probability of closing.
Interestingly, I sold one of my former boats, a 52' Sailboat, to a Canadian family 10 years ago. I was completely transparent with them with respect to what I did to keep the vessel in yacht condtion. They appreciated this geatly as they went forward with the purchase with solid information and experienced no surprises after the sale was consumated. They still correspond with me and I have been sailing with them on the my former boat in Canada and Europe. I think this is the ideal situation for how things should work on the water.
Far too many buyers (I have seen this in large sailing vessels as well as power) do not undertand the level of committment necessary to ensure a safe, reliable yachting experience.
My motto is to take care of the Lady and she will take care of me.
See you on the water
DWM