You have all shed a different light on this scenario for me. There are a few deal breakers though, at least for me. None of them have to do with the boat. My wife is only starting her boating experience. To start with, she is having "difficulty" with the number$ involved in boat ownership. She descrides me as a "tug boat", as I have been able to exert slow, steady, but significant pressure to her attitude, and she is changing course (but slowly)
We are still the proud owners or a 1995 39 SX that is for sale. We can't, and shouldn't, become 2 boat owners. This is especially true for me because the 53 would have to be moved to San Diego $$$, then berthed (no space and $$$$$), then work started on refit/defered maintenance/maintenance $x?. Who knows until you could go over the boat with a fine tooth comb that the boat would be able to travel on it's own bottom, or whether I would definetly have to ship it via docktransport, etc.
There is another one here in Socal that could use some love listed for 199. I am going to look into it. Even though the price is not the screaming deal that the 99k is, if I don't have to move it, and can sell my 39, it might be more palatable.
Thanks again. I am planning on seeing the socal boat in next 2 wks, any other specifics on what to look for would be great.