"but when you turn the wheel to the starboard it hard to turn and the pressure goes up on the pressure gage,"
Several questions and comments:
I'm assuming it is a Hynautic system, right? If not, no need to keep reading; I have no idea if the following applies to any other steering system.
Are you saying that you can turn the wheel to the left and it will turn "normally" to the point it which it "stops" but then when you then try to turn it back to the right it is immediately difficult to turn?
Or does it turn to the right for several rotations and then becomes difficult to turn?
Is the rudder actually turning with the wheel?
Where is this pressure gauge to which you are referring?
In the Hynautic system there is no steering "stop." What stops the wheel is just the increased feedback pressure that occurs when the rudder reaches the end of the travel in either direction. When that occurs, you can still turn the wheel endlessly though it takes far more effort. The mechanical pump, which is attached directly to the steering wheel, has a series of cams/valves/springs and the springs allow the valves to open (pop-off) as the pressure gets to a preset point. You can continue to turn the wheel after the "stop" (it should take considerable effort) and you will feel/hear the valves "chattering" as they pop-off, relieving the pressure.
Re the pressure gauge: IF the pressure gauge you are referring to is the one on the reservoir, that gauge simply shows the pressure in the reservoir tank. The tank is pressurized to ensure that fluid is supplied to the hydraulic system steering pumps at the helms. The pressure in the tank has no impact at all on the steering itself. IOW, whether there is 10 PSI in the tank or 40 PSI in the tank, there is no change to the steering effort or feel at the wheel. If the hydraulic reservoir could be located above the upper helm station, there would be no need to pressurize it at all; gravity would ensure the system was full of fluid.
Turning the wheel to or even beyond the "stop" should have no effect at all on the pressure in the reservoir tank.