Ok, couple of things.....
First, to replace these, you need either new injectors (with the proper fittings) OR you need to remove and replace the fuel pipe connections. You also need to replace the connections on the head.
You CAN do this yourself, but I don't know if I would. Why are you replacing the flares? They're perfectly ok if not abused. When you remove them, put them back in the same place and position (end for end) that you removed them and torque to spec.
I've got the O-ring versions and they work fine too, but IMHO there's no reason to change the other ones out unless you're doing a major or something and the head and injectors are both being replaced anyway. Then I might......
What was the local DD dealer's reason for recommending this (other than selling you the parts, of course!)