I am partway through a similar project, and re reading Vincent's post I will say that it seems to be exactly the way mine was installed.
One thing I caught in re reading though, was what he noted about the cleats:
My main bow cleats did not have backing plates or even larger washers on the inside. Each was attached with 3/8" bronze bolts with regular washers, lock washers and nuts.
Seems crazy to me. So, while my work on the outside, repairing the deck is nearly wrapped up, I am going to do a bunch of fixing up inside the anchor locker on issues like that, as well.
The funny thing is, everything suggests you should take the load off of the windlass, etc, by rigging a bridal to your front cleats.
Makes sense, but my windlass was held in by 6 x 1/2" stainless bolts through the huge 12" windlass backing plates, and the bow roller was through bolted with 4 x 1/2" stainless bolts also, which 1/2" aluminum backing plates.
The cleats had nothing, no plate in the layup or anything like that, just tiny bolts sinking into the fiberglass!