Here is an update:
Pressurizing the water tank during a fill (with a cupped hand) did seem to clear the vent tube because now I get water spurting out of the vent at the end of a fill and no suction noise when the fill cap is removed. That however did not fix the problem.
I removed the plumbing after the check valve and the water free flows through the check valve from gravity induced pressure from the filled tank so that does not seem to be an issue.
2 of the 4 o-rings in the 24V quick connect pump assembly (backer board, pump, and accumulator tank) were leaking at rest so I replaced the assembly and that solved the obvious air in the system so there was a suction leak.
The 120 Headhunter pump still cycled and shut down even though I had good pressure and flow and no obvious additional suction leaks. I took all whale fittings and strainers apart and did find some silicone sealant particals in the fittings. The boat mnfg had added clear sealant to all suction fittings which broke up and got wedged in the fitting o-rings from frequent r&r. That said, no change in behavior. Then I found out by complete accident that if I pressurize the system first with the 24V pump, then the 120V pump works perfect. It pressurizes and turns off as intended and never shuts down on cycling no matter what the water demand circumstances are. The pump mnfg does not know why this works or what failure it might suggest. They only offered the suction leak likelyhood and told me to concentrate on the intake strainer and o-ring fitting on the suction intake of their pump. BTW, the 120V pump cuts in at around 45psi and cuts off at around 60psi. The 24V pump operates at 20/40psi. It does not matter if I leave the 24v pump on or turn it off after the initial pressurization of the system, it never comes on again and the 120V system works perfect every time. It is not like me to leave something in place that is not working perfectly and/or with a half assed solution but this system is a major PITA to access and work on so I am just enjoying the shower volume and pressure for now and am off working on more pressing problems.
There will probably never be another boat owner who will benefit from this "fix" in the entire future of the known universe but hey, everyone seems to have at least one twin out there so maybe this will help my water system twin some day.